DEAR SINGLE LADIES, PLEASE CLOSE YOUR LEGS AND WAIT FOR THE RIGHT PARTNER
For all the single ladies:
Within two months, I encountered many single mothers. Most of them told me how hard it’s to get a man for marriage. For those who got a suitor to marry them, the parents and other members of the family opposed the relationship fiercely because they a child out of wedlock.
Honestly, that should not be. Single mothers are not criminals. Fine, they made mistakes just as we all do. They should be forgiven and accepted unconditionally for marriage. They’re wonderful people who will make great wives.
But in Nigeria or Africa, one great, if not the greatest mistake a single lady will ever commit is to have a child out of wedlock. Over 90% of the men in this part of the world won’t forgive that mistake.
Dear single ladies, with the above mentioned in mind, I want you to know that there is what is called “how things should be” and “the realities on ground”. Please as you live your life every day, avoid certain mistakes. One of them is pregnancy out of wedlock.
Dear single ladies, without mincing words, it’s in your own best interest to be sexually pure. Aside from the spiritual implications of sexual indiscipline, you’re are at the receiving end and will bear the brunt most should you get pregnant. If you get pregnant outside marriage, you will be the one to be stigmatized the most. If you get pregnant, your life will be suspended to some extent, whereas nothing will happen to the man’s life. Should you get pregnant and not wish to keep the pregnancy but would want to abort it, your health and life could be jeopardized, not his. Should you attempt to abort the pregnancy and die in the process, my sister, the guy will move on. Should you keep the pregnancy and wish to marry, single mothers are still much despised in the African society.
Dear single ladies, don’t mind those men who want sex with you, who “claim” to love you. Should you get pregnant, over 90% of them will not be happy with you. Most will deny responsibility for the pregnancy. Many will tell you how unready they’re to marry and start a family now. Can you now see that you are at the receiving end and will bear the brunt the most? Please wise up.
Dear single ladies, close your legs. Sex isn’t one of the ways to reciprocate love shown to you by your man. To show your man love, you could buy him shirts, jeans trousers, suits, wristwatches, perfume, shoes, sandals, belts, get him a nice cake during his birthdays, sometimes if there is a financial need, you could assist him financially, etc. Premarital sex isn’t part of the deal. Sex is meant for the married ones only.
These days, due to increased godlessness and the proliferation of sexual contents, many men can’t do without sex. The same goes for the ladies. To ungodly single men, sex is the only or the best parameter to measure a lady’s love. But that’s a lie from Satan. Satan is the one who wants singles to commit fornication because he knows that Father God frowns at sin and will punish defaulters. Please don’t let any man make you offend God. Please choose to please God and if a man isn’t ready to practice abstinence or sexual purity, let him go. Abstinence doesn’t kill. Your vagina will not park up. You won’t fall sick. You will be very normal and fresh for your God-ordained husband.
Frankly speaking, I am very much aware that sexual temptations exist. To be fair to the men, not all sexual intercourses happen because the men wanted it. These days, many ladies want sex too. They want that pleasure. They want to confirm if the man is potent. They want to find out how good the guy is on the bed. They even want to know the size of the man’s prick. Some also say they want to gain bedroom experience. What???
Dear single ladies, all the above-mentioned reasons are not enough justification for premarital sex. All those are the subtle ways Satan deceives the singles. Hear this: when God gives you your own spouse, you will enjoy your marriage. Therefore, ladies’ abstinence or sexual purity is in your own best interest. Please close your legs!